Life in Five Senses review by Gretchen Rubin [Book Summary & Takeaways]
Life in five senses review by Gretchen Rubin summary> subtitled:How exploring the senses got me out of my head and into the world by Gretchen Rubin. A Five Senses Jump-StartâKey Notes Summary.
Gretchen Rubin is a New York Times bestselling author of The Happiness Project, Outer Order, Inner Calm; The Four Tendencies; Better Than before; and just recently, Life in Five-Senses. She also hosts the award-winning podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin, with her sister, Elizabeth Craft, where they dive into practical solutions for cultivating a happier life. Born and raised in Kansas City, Missouri, Rubin now lives in NYC with her husband, a dog, and their two daughters.
Gretchenâs Five-Senses experiment came to be, after a visit to her eye doctor, she realized, sheâd been taking her five senses for granted. This led her to explore the mysteries and joys of her five senses, as a way to live a more mindful, and happier life.
The following will give you a glimpse into Gretchenâs discoveries, to help appreciate the five-senses even more. She has put together a comprehensive guide that anyone can use to grow more healthier, happier, and engaging with the difficulties of everyday life.
Please enjoy> Gretchenâs life in five sensesâ how exploring her senses got her out of her head and into the world; with more vitality, creativity, and love.
Life in Five Senses by Gretchen Rubin. âKey takeawaysÂ
Seeing
âSee something onceâreally see itâand it never looks the same again.ââ Gretchen Rubin, Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World
Cloud reflected in the water at Central Parkâs Lake.
An orange traffic cone
The toothy cow grinning down from the stained-glass window in the Met Museum.
A wall of library shelves crowded with books.
Jamie (her husband) asleep under a heap of covers in early morning light.
Hearing
âOur hearing anchors us in the world; it tells us whatâs happening behind us, above us, in the dark, and before weâre born. Sound pumps me up, calms me down, and transforms my moods in just a few seconds.â â Gretchen RubinÂ
Eliza and Eleanor (her daughters) laughing at each otherâs jokes.
Barnabyâs (the family dog) deep sigh after he curls up on his favorite blanket.
Clicking sound of fingers on a keyboard.
Elizabeth (her sister the sage) saying, âOkay, Gretch, itâs time forâŚâ during a Happier recording.
The roar of the #6 subway train as it pulls into the station.
Smelling
Of the five senses, smell is the one with the best memory. âRebecca McClanahan
Sharpie pens
Nighttime perfume
Black coffee
The Metâs hand sanitizer
Crushed lavender
Tasting
âOver the years, Iâve learned that itâs important that we give ourselves treatsâwhich may sound self-indulgent or frivolous, but itâs not. When we give more to ourselves, we can ask more from ourselves. Treats help us to stick to challenging goals, resist unhealthy temptations, and shrug off small irritations. When we donât get any treats, we can begin to feel burned-out, depleted, and resentful.â âGretchen Rubin, Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World
Gretchen Rubin, Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World
Try This at Home:Â A Five-Senses Jump-Start
Consider creating a five-senses portrait of your own; Identifying the sights, touch, smells, tastes, and sounds of all things you experience. Your Life in Five Senses:Â Get Out of Your Head and Into the World
Seeing
Look for whatâs overlooked. (e.g., TV advertisements, logos, drugstore shelves, the houses on your streetâŚwhat do you notice when you really look closely? (for Gretchen, sheâd finally noticed the arrow on Fedex trucks.)
Choose a place fora daily visit. (Gretchenâs place is the Met or The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York.)
Indulge in a splurge of color. Find an inexpensive, easy way to add a beautiful spot of colorâwear a bright, fun color, paint the walls, buy a set of colored pencils; paint your nails.
Make your smartphone screen less appealing by switching it to âgrayscale.â For a day or a week, set your phone to display in black, white, and gray to see how the lack of color affects your usage.
Eliminate an eyesore. Look around your home and office. Can you spot any areas that are cluttered, crowded, or dirty, or otherwise hurt your eyes? Figure out a plan to make improvement.
Find new ways to see. To sharpen your sense of sight. Choose an object and try to see it in many ways: Look at it in the mirror, suint at it, block part of it with your hand, look at it from far away and close up.
Hearing
Make a list of songs you love, for whatever state of mind youâd like to cultivate. Find out whether youâre a song lover or a music lover. Maybe youâd like a playlist that puts you in a happy, high-energy mood; or perhaps youâd like songs that invoke a calm, reflective spirit or a melancholy mood. Find out. Music can be a terrific way to give ourselves a treat.
Pay attention to your listening. Write your own manifesto for listening, to remind yourself of your own listening challengesâand how you might listen better.
Listen to music to create your own personal soundtrack as you move through your day. Noticehow music can influence your mood.
Turn down the noise. Just as you might clear clutter, find ways to clear clatter. Protect your ears: Turn off your phone notifications, invest in noise-canceling earbuds or headphones, turn off the TV if youâre not watching it, and avoid noisy places.
Smelling
Explore your sense of smell with some home experiments: âPlug your nose and put a jellybean in your mouth, then unplug your nose and note how the flavor changes. âTry a board game like Follow Your Nose or team up with others to try to identify mystery scents. âNotice how even a strong smell fades out of awareness after a few minutes. âCompare how each nostril registers a slightly different smell.
Sharpen your sense of smell by increasing blood flow to your noseârun up and down stairs or do some jumping jacks.
Go out of your way to have interesting smell experiences. Smell items such as smelling salts, scratch-and-sniffs, and unfamiliar fruits.
Add fragrance. Look for ways to add a beautiful scent to your environment: scented candles, sachets, fresh flowers, perfume, incense sticks. etc.
Eliminate odor. Find ways to fix something smelly. (e.g., the fridge, the space under the kitchen sink, a trash bin, a dank basement, a carpet subjected to lots of pet accidents.) Pay attention to the smells of places you visit. Remember, the familiar is easy to ignore.
To feel more present in a particular place and time, pause to notice all the smells you can detect.
Tasting
Explore your sense of taste with some home experiments: âUse an orange to experience the difference between sour and bitter. The segments taste sour and the rind taste bitter. âTry the miracle fruit that makes sour things taste sweet. âcook with spices you havenât used before.
Pull out a bottle of ketchup and pay close attention as you put a few drops on your tongue. Notice its taste and also its color and shine, its smell, its texture.
Deprive yourself of a common taste for a day, a week, a month, indefinitely. Deprivation can help remind us of the pleasure that we get from a taste by temporarily giving it up. Deprivation may also show us that weâre happier when we five up a taste altogether.
Educate your tongue. Take a tasting class, in person or online, to learn about some taste that interest you, such as wine, beer, cheese, chocolate, or coffee.
Hold a taste party. Invite people to compare tastes of different brands or varieties of familiar items, such as fruits, vinegars, olives, teas, pickles, and energy bars; to identify mystery tastes, or ingredient thatâs taken for granted.
Share taste memories. our sense of taste offers us a great way to connect with othersâtheir childhoods, their cultures, their memories.
Seek an experience that will give you some boredom. Boredom can stimulate our imaginations, because when weâre bored, we reach inward to find stimulation.
Touching
Use your sense of touch to engage with books that have a touch element, such as âtouch and feelâ books, pop-up books, and lift-the-flap books.
Visit a store where you can touch the merchandise. Feel the plushy folds of bath towels, the smooth surface of glass mixing bowls, the cold weight of carpentry tools.
As you move through your day, touch as many textures as possible and notice how your entire experience changes when you use your hands.
Give a loving touch. Within appropriate bounds, of course, look for opportunities for affectionate hugs, fist bumps, squeezes, hand-holding, or quick touches. Find ways to connect with the people you love through a warm touch.
Pet animals, and really notice the texture of their fur and bodies.
Hold a calming prop, such as a mug, a pen, a clipboard, or a stone. some touch items are specifically designed to help boost calm and focus, so consider trying a weighted blanket, therapy dough, a popping fidget toy, or a fidget spinner.
On a visit to a museum, buy a few postcards of artwork on display, then visit them to compare the actual artwork to the postcard version. Notice how looking at the postcard changes your view of the real piece.
Life in Five Senses review
For more delight, Gretchen advices us: to notice and appreciate your five senses. keep a Five-Senses journal where each day, you note the sense-highlights you experience. Delight others by playing a lighthearted prank or giving a gift that confounds the senses. If youâre not yet twenty-five years old, expose yourself to as many new sensations as possible; if we havenât had a positive experience with something like a new food or new form of music by that age, we probably wonât embrace it.
For more love Gretchen says:To draw closer to someone you love, create a Five-Senses Portrait, (similar to the one presented above) to push yourself to notice small details of that personâs physical presence. You might also use this exercise to help you remember and celebrate a person who has died, or to hang on to memories of a place, a season of the year, or a particular experience.
For more energy and calm, she writes:Â Depending on what works for you, turn sensations up or down to refresh your mind.
For more imagination: To give yourself some unstructured time to play, schedule time for recess. Visit a place that sells materials and tools for creative endeavors: a hardware store, department store, gardening center, cooking-supply store, art store, or craft store.
For more memories Gretchen reminds us that: One day, now will be a long time ago, so to sharpen your experience of the present, and to create memories for the future,create an Album of Now by making a photo album of your ordinary life.
For more self-knowledge, Gretchen mentions to: Visit a place that fills you with awe and open your senses to experience it.
For more about Gretchen Rubin, visit her website, gretchenrubin.com, where she posts regularly about her happiness adventures, good habits, and human nature. And as Gretchen would say, âonward and upward.
List of objects mentioned:
Panel with the Nativity. Ca. 1440. Pot metal, white glass, vitreous paint, silver stain. The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York.